Being bullied or harassed at work is not "just part of the job" — New Zealand law gives you several routes, and choosing the right one matters. A personal grievance against your employer runs on a 90-day clock (12 months for sexual harassment). Health-and-safety law makes your employer responsible for managing bullying as a workplace risk. And discrimination-based harassment can also go to the Human Rights Commission. Call 0800 461 100 free, any hour, to work out the right route for your situation.
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Two clocks. Personal grievances must be raised with your employer within 90 days — except sexual harassment grievances, where a 2023 law change extended the window to 12 months. Raising a grievance costs nothing: tell your employer clearly, in writing. If your safety is at risk at work today, that is a health-and-safety emergency — treat it as one.
My boss says it is "robust management", not bullying. Where is the line?
Reasonable management action done reasonably — performance reviews, direction, feedback — is not bullying, even when unwelcome. The line is crossed by repeated unreasonable behaviour: targeting, humiliation, moving goalposts, weaponised workloads. The pattern and the reasonableness are what a grievance tests.
I quit because I could not take it anymore. Have I lost my rights?
Not necessarily. Where the employer's conduct — or its failure to act on complaints — left resignation as the only real option, the law can treat it as constructive dismissal, with full grievance rights. The clock runs from the resignation, so act quickly.
The harasser is a customer, not a colleague. Is my employer still responsible?
Employers' duties extend to protecting you from foreseeable harassment in the course of your work, including by clients and customers in defined circumstances — especially once they know. An employer who shrugs at a harassing customer is failing both employment and safety duties.
What can I actually get if I win?
Compensation for humiliation, loss of dignity and injury to feelings; lost wages where the conduct cost you income or your job; and orders that change things — the Authority can direct employers, and settlements routinely include apologies, references and departures on your terms.
Can I complain anonymously first?
You can get information anonymously — the free line needs no names. Formal routes ultimately involve identifying yourself, but you control the timing, and understanding your position first (strength, remedies, risks) is exactly what makes the next step safe to take.
Call the free line any time. We'll help you understand your options and, if you want one, book a one-hour consultation with a New Zealand lawyer — NZ$295, GST inclusive, right on the call.
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